Online Relationship Questionnaire.

 

Millions of individuals are looking for a quick fix to a potentially serious life project---relationship. So serious is relationship formation that, it may affect your life permanently. It may affect it for good or for bad. There is no questionnaire that can substitute for keen interactive observations. There is no amount of detailed questionnaire that can replace practical first hand experience and information that you gather in real world about your partner. For the moment, your practical assessment as well as information gathering, you will need to be a CIA, MI5 and FSB all combined with attention to details of Agatha Christie.  My teachers used to tell us in medical school that you can not learn medicine by correspondence. Neither can you learn engineering by distance learning. In the same way, you can not understand your future and current partner by reading the person through questionnaires.

Future human and indeed current human conduct can not be predicted on mere questionnaires.

 

If questionnaires are helpful, they are helpful by reason of the fact that they are guides only. Most people have relied on questionnaire to their surprise at what kind of different person had turned out at home even though the assessment questions says otherwise.

 

Having said that, questionnaire, can help guide you to your intended destination. But you will need to be alert to your specific requirements. No two individuals are the same. No two families or couples are the same.

 

I have set out below,  a relationship questionnaire which I  have developed as a result of my clinical experience, gathering facts and observing situations from my  patients and personal observations. It incorporates my experience over the years. Further, I have inputted elements of the operation of the matrimonial law viewing it from my vantage legal position. Finally, I have first hand experience of marriage too and I know the experience. I have therefore, not standing in a distance and telling you what to do. I am part and parcel of the experience, as the saying goes.

These questions are not personality questions asking you if you care about  who spends the most in the relationship or if you care about who is advancing in his or her career. These questions below are meant to help you reach your long term goals and not a superficial assessment.

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Guidance; There are thousands of variable answers to each of these questions. Only you can provide the answer that is appropriate for you in the way you see things. No two individual are physically, genetically and psychologically the same. No scoring is required. Figures will not tell you  much. If you score 100% here and you do not know the nature of your partner, you have failed.  You are who you uniquely are. With these points in our mind, let us look at the questions.

 

 

Please note that these questions are valid for pre-marital and also existing marital relationships. You will find that the questionnaire had been formulated to suit assessment of ordinary friendships too.  


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Everything in life and everything that is in existence has a purpose. Now for what reason(s), are you getting into this relationship? 

Except you have a purpose, your relationship is in danger as you have nothing to protect. If you allow so-called “love” to blind you, later when an established relationship occurs, your eyes will “open” to reality. (See chapter on love above).  You might call this utilitarian principle. You can not and should not be blind-folded to walking into a cliff.

Examples of purpose might be: 

a) Social Acceptance

b) To satisfy parents

c) Monetary/financial Reasons

d) Immigration

e) Companionship. Etc

f) For Security, otherwise. Etc

 

Every acts in life or anything that we see or know of, begins with an intention. Now, in respect of this relationship, is it your TRUE intention to enter into it or were you “recruited” or coerced into it?

Examples of situations that could “recruit” you into a relationship without your intention to do so are:

a)Family pressure

b)Peer (friends) pressure

c) To fulfil religious duties

d) To satisfy work requirements e.g. high executive positions, politics etc

e) Attempt “to belong” or “conform” to certain society norms

 

Except you are completely aimless, you should have an expectation of both your partner and what you intend to derive from the relationship; marriage fail and relationships end on the painful ground of failed expectation: “I did not expect him (or her) to behave like that” or “she did  ...Read More....

Table of Contents

 

 
 

Acknowledgement                                                                            

Dedication                                                                                         

Introduction: Every Human Dilemma                                          

 

Section I

Intimate Relationships

 

Chapter One:                                                                          

Names Do Matter                                                                               

 

Chapter Two: 

The Root of Relationships and the Crucible of   

Controversy                                                                                         

Chapter Three:

The Purpose of Marriage                                                                 

 

Chapter Four: 

The Choice of Spouse and Partner:

Free Will and the Choices that We Make                                      

 

Chapter Five: 

Why Marriages and Relationships Fail or                         

Succeed                                                                                                

Chapter Six:    

Adolescent Relationship: The Turbulent Years                             

 

Chapter Seven:

Is this Love or Deceit? Why Does “Love” 

Hurt so Badly?                                                                                       

 

Chapter Eight: 

Advantages and Disadvantages of Marriage                         

And Partnership/Co-habitation Relationships,

With Legal, Medical, Social, Implications                                        

 

Chapter Nine:  

Consequences of Broken Marriages and

Broken Relationships                                                                          

 

Chapter Ten:    

Broken Marriages: Effects on Children                                           

 

Chapter Eleven:

Broken Marriages/Partnerships: Effects on

Relatives, Friends and In-laws                                                           

 

Chapter Twelve:

Broken Marriages: Effects on Society         
                                                     

Chapter Thirteen:

Anger and Frustration: Causes,                       

And Management in Relationships                                                    

 

Chapter Fourteen:

There is Power in Knowing: Talking Frankly with You                  

 

Chapter Fifteen: 

Relationship Questionnaire/Assessment Scales                         

                            

      Chapter Sixteen:

      Conflict Resolutions in Relationships                                                

 

Chapter Seventeen:

Sex in Relationships: Snare or Serenity?

Is Sex Necessary?                                                                               

Chapter Eighteen:

Gender Differences: What You Should Know                                 

             

Chapter Nineteen:

Sample of Marriage/Partnership Agreement                                  

 

 

 

 

Section II

Platonic Relationships

(Non-Sexual Relationships)

 

Chapter Twenty:                                                                    

Friendships                                                                                                                  

Chapter Twenty One:

Children, Siblings and Extended Family Relationships                        

 

Chapter Twenty Two:

Business Relationships                                                                                

 

Section III

Experience

 

Chapter Twenty Three:

Maintenance of Relationships                                                                   

 

Chapter Twenty Four:

Instances of One-Sided Relationships:

Abuse of Relationships                                                                                

 

Chapter Twenty Five: 

Stories of Successful and Dreadfully Failed Relationships                 

 

Twenty Six:                

Conclusion                                                                                                         

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References                                                                                                         330

  

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